Month: March 2010

  • Will not be on around

    I will probably not be online much tomorrow. Why? Because it is April First. It is a day that people feel it is perfectly ok to lie to each other and play cruel tricks on people.

    What do you think about the things people do on April Fools day? We have taught our children it is not ok to lie. It doesn’t matter what day it is. How do believers Justify lying to others on April Fools Day?

    Pro 6:16  These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
    Pro 6:17  A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
    Pro 6:18  An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,
    Pro 6:19  A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.

    Col 3:9  Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;
    Col 3:10  And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:

    We can read of the incident of Ananias and Sapphira in Acts chapter 5 in the Bible. They both fell dead when they lied to the Holy Spirit.

    Rev 21:7  He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son.
    Rev 21:8  But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.

    We want to represent our Father well in this life and be honest and free from lies.
    Believers must recognize lying for the evil it is and never try to justify it under any circumstances, no matter how difficult they may be. Nothing will destroy our influence quicker. No confidence can be placed in a liar.

    Eph 6:14  Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;

  • Thanks for the memories

    I used to watch a lot of wrestling. Last night HBK Shawn Michaels retired. I remember watching him for years. I watched him when he was with “the rockers” and later on.


    He was a wonderful wrestler. He is a great follower of God. (He even thanks God for his salvation in his retirrement speech on Live TV)

    Here are videos of him and then the last two are his retirement speech.

    Thanks for the memories Shawn!!!!!

  • Prayer

    Avinu shebashamyaim, tzur yisrael vego’alo
    barekh et medinat yisrael reishit tzemichat geulateinu.
    Hagein aleyha be’evrat chasdekha ufros aleyha sukkat shelomekha
     ushelach orekha va’amitekha lerasheha, sareha, veyo’atzeha vetakneim
    be’atzah tovah milfanekha. Chazeik et yedei meginei eretz kodsheinu
    vehanchileim eloheinu yeshuah va’ateret nitzahon te’atreim,
    venatata shalom ba’aretz vesimchat olam leyoshveha.
    Vinomar, amen.

  • Prayer Request

    I am asking for prayer for the pain I am in
    and also for my hearing issues.

    Thank you

  • What is Borderline Personality Dissorder?

    Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a serious and often life-threatening disorder that is characterized by severe emotional pain and difficulties managing emotions. The problems associated with BPD include impulsivity (including suicidality and self-harm), severe negative emotion such as anger and/or shame, chaotic relationships, an extreme fear of abandonment, and accompanying difficulties maintaining a stable and accepting sense of self

    Completed suicide occurs in 8%-10% of individuals with this disorder, and self-mutilative acts (e.g., cutting or burning) and suicide threats and attempts are very common. Recurrent job losses, interrupted education, and broken marriages are common.

    Very stressful or chaotic childhoods are commonly reported (e.g., physical and sexual abuse, neglect, hostile conflict, and early parental loss or separation). Mood disorders, Substance-Related Disorders, Eating Disorders (usually Bulimia), Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, and other Personality Disorders frequently co-occur with this disorder.

    Individuals with BPD can be very sensitive to the way others treat them, reacting strongly to perceived criticism or hurtfulness. Their feelings about others often shift from positive to negative, generally after a disappointment or perceived threat of losing someone. Self-image can also change rapidly from extremely positive to extremely negative. Impulsive behaviors are common, including alcohol or drug abuse, unsafe sex, gambling and recklessness in general.

    Individuals with BPD are at high risk of developing other psychological disorders such as anxiety and depression. Other symptoms of BPD, such as dissociation, are frequently linked to severely traumatic childhood experiences, which some put forth as one of the many root causes of the borderline personality.

    The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders fourth edition, DSM IV-TR, a widely used manual for diagnosing mental disorders, defines borderline personality disorder (in Axis II Cluster B) as:

    A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image and affects, as well as marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

           1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not include suicidal or self-injuring behavior covered in Criterion 5
           2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
           3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
           4. Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., promiscuous sex, eating disorders, binge eating, substance abuse, reckless driving). Note: Do not include suicidal or self-injuring behavior covered in Criterion 5
           5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, threats or self-injuring behavior such as cutting, interfering with the healing of scars (excoriation) or picking at oneself.
           6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
           7. Chronic feelings of emptiness
           8. Inappropriate anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
           9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation, delusions or severe dissociative symptoms

    It is a requirement of DSM-IV that a diagnosis of any specific personality disorder also satisfies a set of general personality disorder criteria.

    When comparing individuals diagnosed with BPD to those diagnosed with other personality disorders, the former showed a higher rate of also meeting criteria for:
    anxiety disorders
    mood disorders (including clinical depression and bipolar disorder)
    eating disorders (including anorexia nervosa and bulimia)
    dissociative disorders

    Numerous studies have shown a strong correlation between child abuse, especially child sexual abuse, and development of BPD. Many individuals with BPD report to have had a history of abuse and neglect as young children. They were also much more likely to report having caregivers (of both genders) deny the validity of their thoughts and feelings.

  • Israel

    chorus]
    Israel
    Can you hear your Father
    Israel
    Will you hold His hand
    Israel
    Will you open your heart
    Israel
    Please return to Him

    [verse 1]
    Not too long ago in ’48
    God established the holy state
    We came from ghettos
    And death camps
    We survived the genocide
    On the first day had a war
    Had no rest were in for more
    From that day up until now
    Why has it not changed

    [chorus]
    Israel
    Can you hear your Father
    Israel
    Will you hold His hand
    Israel
    Will you open your heart
    Israel
    Please return to Him

    [verse 2]
    Such a tiny state the size of Jersey
    What’s the big deal they’re going crazy
    Wanna take it over tell us why
    No justified reason that we should die
    But if we just turn to the Son
    And read the Word the war is won
    In the end yeah Israel remains
    And we will all know the King who reigns

    [chorus]
    Israel
    Can you hear your Father
    Israel
    Will you hold His hand
    Israel
    Will you open your heart
    Israel
    Please return to Him

    [verse 3]
    In times of trouble in times of pain
    Open up the Book He’s still the same
    There’s only one Creator one God
    His name is Yahweh
    His Son is Yeshua
    Well He’s the prophesied world’s Messiah
    They call upon His name
    from Africa to China
    Even India, France and Spain too
    Have finally embraced the world’s
    Most famous Jew

    [chorus]
    Israel
    Can you hear your Father
    Israel
    Will you hold His hand
    Israel
    Will you open your heart
    Israel
    Please return to Him

  • Storytime with C – Dan the flying man

    Here is C reading to you Dan the Flying Man. I hope you enjoy it. Feel free to leave nice comments for him :) He is very enthusiastic about reading.

  • A Happy Birthday Shout-out

    My husband made this video in celebration of my son’s 6th birthday which just happens to be today

    so

    Happy Birthday

    We hope you all enjoy the video

  • The Invisible People


    I am one of the invisible people.

    Current estimates suggest that there are more than 25 million family caregivers in America.

    The value of the services family caregivers provide for free is estimated to be at least $306 billion a year.

    Virtually one half of the US population has a chronic condition. Of these 41 million were limited in their daily activities. Twelve million are unable to go to school, to work, or to live independently. Most of them rely on family for assistance.

    Sixty-one percent (61%) of “intense” family caregivers (those providing at least 21 hours of care a week) have suffered from depression. Some studies have shown that caregiver stress inhibits healing.

    Approximately half of all family caregivers deal with prolonged bouts of depression. Two-thirds do not receive consistent help from other family members.

    We are the Invisible People!!

    We aren’t seen, aren’t heard from, aren’t thought about.

    We want to be remembered.

    Women who are family caregivers are 2.5 times more likely than non-caregivers to live in poverty

    Family caregivers experiencing extreme stress have been shown to age prematurely. This level of stress can take as much as 10 years off a family caregiver’s life.

    Caregiving so often keeps us off balance. It is easy to get lost in its physical and psychological maelstrom—the sadness, the frustration, the stress and strain on your body and your mind, the financial worries, the emotional pain—you know them well.

    Providing help is something that family caregivers know a great deal about. It is what we do every day. The question is how often does someone lend us a helping hand? The answer for most family caregivers is not often enough.

    Being a family caregiver can be a very lonely endeavor, especially if you have little or no chance for social interaction with others

    Caregiving is wondering why no one ever asks how you are.

    Caregiving is hard work.

    Caregiving is pain.

    Caregiving is loving and giving and sharing.

    Caregiving is accepting and learning new things and going on, and on, and on.

    Caregiving is lots of questions and very few answers.

    Caregiving is being out of the mainstream.

    Caregiving is all these things and a whole lot more.

  • Baruch Ha Ba B’shem Adonai … Blessed Is He Who Comes in the name of the Lord

    Baruch Ha Ba B’shem Adonai … Blessed Is He Who Comes in the name of the Lord