March 17, 2008
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The Stranger
I don’t know who this is by but I think everyone should read it and think about it.
The Stranger
A few months before I was born, my dad met a stranger who was new to
our small Tennessee town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with
this enchanting newcomer, and soon invited him to live with our family.
The stranger was quickly accepted and was around to welcome me into
the world a few months later.As I grew up I never questioned his place in our family. In my young
mind, each member had a special niche. My brother, Bill, five years my
senior, was my example. Fran, my younger sister, gave me an opportunity
to
play ‘big brother’ and develop the art of teasing. My parents were
complementary instructors– Mom taught me to love the Word of God,
and Dad taught me to obey it.But the stranger was our storyteller. He could weave the most fascinating
tales. Adventures, mysteries and comedies were daily conversations. He
could hold our whole family spell-bound for hours each evening.If I wanted to know about politics, history, or science, he knew it all. He
knew about the past, understood the present, and seemingly could predict
the future. The pictures he could draw were so life like that I: would often
laugh or cry as I watched.He was Iike a friend to the whole family. He took Dad, Bill and me to our
first
major league baseball game. He was always encouraging us to see the
movies and he even made arrangements to introduce us to several movie
stars. My brother and I were deeply impressed by John Wayne in particular.The stranger was an incessant talker. Dad didn’ t seem to mind-but
sometimes Mom would quietly get up– while the rest of us were
enthralled with one of
his stories of faraway places– go to her room, read her Bible and pray. I
wonder now if she ever prayed that the stranger would leave.You see, my dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions. But
this stranger never felt obligation to honor them. Profanity, for example,
was not allowed in our house– not from us, from our friends, or adults.
Our longtime visitor, however, used occasional four letter words that
burned my ears and made Dad squirm. To my knowledge the stranger
was never confronted. My dad was a teetotaler who didn’t permit alcohol
in
his home – not even for cooking. But the stranger felt 1ike we needed
exposure and enlightened us to other ways of life. He offered us beer
and
other alcoholic beverages often.He made cigarettes look tasty, cigars manly, and pipes distinguished.
He talked freely (probably too much too freely) about sex. His comments
were sometimes blatant, sometimes sugestive, and generally embarrassing.
I know now that my early concepts of the man-woman relationship were influenced by the stranger,As I look back, I believe it was the grace of God that the stranger
did not influence us more. Time after time he opposed the values of my
parents.
Yet he was seldom rebuked and never asked to leave.More than thirty years have passed since the stranger moved in with the
young family on Morningside Drive. He is not nearly so intriguing to my
Dad as he was in those early years. But if I were to walk into my parents’
den today, you would still see him sitting over in a corner, waiting for
someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his pictures…His name? We always just called him TV.”
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Watching/reading/listening to these things is having pleasure in them that
do them. The bottom line is that when we participate as willing observers we are
having pleasure in sinners who are sinning. What abominationPsalms 101:3 I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work
Of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me.2 Timothy 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, DESPISERS OF THOSE THAT ARE GOOD, 4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of PLEASURES more than lovers of God; 5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: FROM SUCH TURN AWAY.
But instead of turning away from these types of people, Christians across the land JUSTIFY their “right” to invite these people into their living rooms for entertainment!
2 Corinthians 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye SEPARATE, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you…
2 Thessalonians 3:14 And if any man obey not our word by this epistle, note that man, and have no company with him, that he may be ashamed.
James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.In the second epistle of John, verses 9-11, we read:
9 Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the
doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of
Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.
10 If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed:
11 For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds.
The Word of God tells us to not invite someone into our house who abideth not in the doctrine of Christ.
Do the people on your tv screen abide in the doctrine of Christ?
The Law of God tells us that we should not covet. Now what do you
suppose is the purpose of ALL advertising you see on tv? Is it to
encourage you to a simpler lifestyle? Is it to make you content with
the things that God has blessed you with?Is your tv a “good thing”? Do you think that if the Lord Jesus were
here on earth today, He would sit and watch the things you watch?
Comments (10)
Oh, that guy. We kicked him out of our house. Seriously. We do not have commercial TV, no cable, no dish. The only TV we see are DVD we choose (none that are R rated) and selected network programming that we watch over the internet. Like tonight. We will watch ABC’s Extreme Home Makeover which aired yesterday. We are very selective, and Mr. TV is GONE. He wasn’t worth the price, in more than one way.
I have a question. I mentioned this on my site in reply to your comment, and I want to know what you think. I was once on a mission trip where we ministered to homeless people. A good majority of them were abusers of alcohol and probably other things that were unknown to us. These people may or may not have known Christ (which is why we were there). We had some pretty good times fellowshipping with these people, regardless of the fact that they had such problems; that they did such things. It seems to me that according to everything you just said, and even according to what the poem says, we should not have befriended these people.
We also met a very nice Christian man who has set up a cafe where homeless people, be-it Christ followers or not, can come in and get free food and drink. He sees it as a great way to minister to people using Christian love. Is what he does wrong because he’s allowing people who may not follow Christ’s doctrine to come into his establishment? FYI, alcohol and drugs aren’t allowed in his establishment, but it’s very likely that some of the people who come in partake in such things outside of the cafe. The point is, this man is a blessing to these people who are suffering whether some of them see it that way or not, should he really not allow some of them in because they may not follow Christ?
Just looking for your thoughts on this.
God Bless,
Chris
Yes, the TV can be used for evil. I don’t think anyone is missing anything by not having a TV and if someone feels that they should not have one, then I think that’s great.However I think we should examine ALL scripture before we decide that something is inherently “bad”.
“I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean.” Romans 14:14
I think this would include TV as well. A TV is simply a box full of wires and chipboards. It is not evil. You can watch programing ON the TV that is evil, but that is the choice of the person holding the remote (or their parents) not the inanimate objects. What is in a person’s hearts will reveal itself. Noone is going to be attacked by a television and forced to do something sinful. Also if someone has sin in their heart they will find a way to satisfy it even if they don’t have a TV. Many things are like this. A gun can be used to shoot a steer to provide meat for a family or it can be used to kill another human being. That does not make guns evil. The murderer is evil, not the gun. And in the same way the TV CAN be used for evil, but it can also be used for good.
I think it is a very good thing to cheer eachother on to go all the way for Christ, however I think too often we get ideas that are over and above what Christ requires and hold others up to the same standard. I think we should always be willing to give ANYTHING up for the Lord
I think that is a very thought-provoking comparison. I know I certainly watch things for myself that I would not do because I think they are immoral. I am much more careful about what my children watch.
I think the internet can pose just as great a threat. but it seems fewer people are willing to give up the internet than tv.
I also agree with mandamom2many’s reply above. I don’t think the tv is inherently evil, but I do believe we (and I mean myself) can easily slip into watching things that have questionable morals. I certainly think giving up the tv makes it easier to resist that temptation, but I don’t think it is necessarily wrong/unbiblical to have a tv.
@Soul_in_Motion - you are supposed to witness to the world. but how do you witness to your TV? How are you affecting it? It is just affecting you.
Do you rebuke your TV when it uses the Lords name in vain?
Many parents are hard put to explain to their youth why some
music, movies, books, games, and magazines are not acceptable
material for them to bring into the home to see or hear. One
parent came up with an original idea that was hard to refute.
He listened to all the reasons his children gave for wanting
to see a particular PG-13 movie: it had their favorite actors,
everyone else was seeing it, even church members said it was great,
it was only rated PG-13 because of the suggestion of sex-they
never really showed it, the language was pretty good-they only
used the Lord’s name in vain three times in the whole movie, the
video effects were fabulous and the plot was action packed. Yes,
there was the scene where a building and a bunch of people got
blown up, but the violence was just the normal stuff, it wasn’t
very bad. Even with all these explanations for the rating, the
father wouldn’t give in. He didn’t even give them a satisfying
explanation for saying, “No.” He just said “No.”
Later that evening, this same father asked his teens if they
would like some brownies he had prepared. He explained that
he had taken the family’s favorite recipe and added something
new. They asked what it was. He calmly replied that he had
added dog poop. He stated that it was only a tiny bit and that
all the other ingredients were gourmet quality. He had taken
great care to bake it at the precise temperature for the exact
time. He was sure the brownies would be superb.
Even with all the explanations of the perfect attributes of
the brownies, the teens would not take one. The father acted
surprised. There was only one little element that would have
caused them to act so stubbornly. He assured them that they would
hardly notice it at all. But they all held
firm and would not try the brownies.
He then explained that the movie they wanted to see was just
like the brownies. Satan tries to enter our minds and our homes
by deceiving us into believing that just a little bit of evil
doesn’t matter. With the brownies, just a little bit makes all
the difference between a great brownie and a
totally unacceptable product. He explained that even though
the smallest amout of dog poop makes the brownie totally unacceptible,
they seemed to having no problem consuming a movie movie of similar
ingredients. The movie people would have us believe the movies
which are coming out are acceptable for adults and youths to see,
they are no more so than dog poop brownies are edible!
I’m careful in choosing TV shows/programs. I like watching movies, but I make sure it is a good thing to watch, like those movies with moral lessons in it. The same thing goes for music and books. We should be the salt in the world… Preserving righteousness. God bless! =)
I am one of the very rare parents who filter, control, select and preplan what my children see on tv. We watch very few TV shows. If we watch something its the discovery channel or PBS kids. I think because my child has a select amount of DVD’s to chose from she’s safer than most in TV viewing. She has a TV in her bedroom for her own Barney tapes and other praise baby tapes. I don’t see sin in this, I see education.
As far as what I watch.. no God would not be pleased with me. Sadly I’m not nearly as Christian in my selections as I should be. I think though seeing something thats wrong and admitting that it is is the first step in the problem.
I do not tend to rebuke inanimate objects. Well, actually, not that’s not true, I gave my toaster an earfull the other day for burning my waffles
. Again, it is what the person is choosing to watch that is the issue, not the machine. A good question to ask yourself is “If Christ were sitting beside me, would I watch this?” I think most stuff on TV would get a negative responce to that, but there is still a lot that I would feel no problem watching with the Lord. And I think this is something that can be applied to almost EVERY aspect of our lives, not just TV viewing, EVERYTHING we do should pass that test.
Great Point on this and we filter what we watch and we hardly watch primetime channels like for ABC NBC and CBS and so on. I watch cooking shows, Home improvement shows, how it’s made and so on. Most of the time it’s off during the day until we are resting and its’ what my husband thinks it’s alright to watch at the home.