November 17, 2008
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Why do women shave?
Why do women shave? Why do you shave?
I myself don’t shave. I grew up in a house where it was thought weird if a woman shaved. I don’t understand why women shave their legs and underarms. If God didn’t want us to have it He wouldn’t have given it to us.
Also why do some women think they need to shave “down there”? Men and women are meant to have hair down there? Why do people shave it and try to look like children down there?
Do you shave? Why?———————————————————-
Shaving facts:
In the 1920s when women began wearing knee length, sleeveless ‘flapper dresses’ they also sported hairless legs and shaved under-arms.
Shaving can have numerous side effects, including cuts, abrasions, irritation and the feeling that something is missing. Some people with curly hair have an adverse response to shaving called razor bumps due to ingrown hairs.
For women, the practice of shaving the legs derives from a current cultural standard in the West that deems leg hair on women unattractive. This standard emerged during the early twentieth century, as women’s legs became more visible owing to shorter hemlines, and when the safety razor made the practice of leg shaving practical. The reasons for this cultural standard are debated, but it is sometimes seen as an example of a cultural mechanism for increasing sexuality.
Some women, despite the social pressures that favor hairless legs in certain Western countries, never shave at all. While some refrain out of lack of concern, others consider leg and armpit shaving an unnatural and repressive societal double standard. Still others refrain in an effort to be less environmentally wasteful. Research also suggests that women who do not shave their body hair are “characterized by higher global self-esteem. Scholars suggest that this is because women with lower levels of self-esteem are less likely to be satisfied with their natural bodies, and thus more likely to alter them.
Today, in many countries, especially in much of the Western world, it is more common for women than men to shave off their underarm hair regularly for aesthetic reasons, a practice that may be connected to the overall body hair distribution of sexes. Prevalence of this practice varies widely, though. Some Western women sport a stubble as a mark of defiance against imposed cultural mores. In some East European countries as well as China, underarm shaving is less common and is not considered esthetically necessary.
In the West, the practice began around 1915 in the US and UK, when one or more magazines showed a woman in a dress with shaved underarms. Regular shaving became feasible with the introduction of the safety razor at the beginning of the 20th century. While underarm shaving was quickly adopted in English speaking countries, especially in the US and Canada, it did not become widespread on the Continent of Europe until well after WWII.As the temperature goes up and women’s clothing starts to range from small to non-existent, razor industry executives probably start thanking their lucky stars that most women in this country won’t be seen in public with a bit of stubble on their legs.
Why do women do it? Shaving is such a hassle. It’s time-consuming and the tangible benefits seem minimal.
What about waxing? What possesses women to voluntarily pay someone to torture them?
I really don’t understand why women do it. I have never been one to be big on the idea.
Who ever came up with the idea of shaving? What were they thinking? Taking a sharp implement of some sort and dragging it across their skin to remove their hair to make that area of their body hairless in an attempt to appear prepubescent? Of course, if you’re going to do that, you’re going to cut yourself frequently. And you’ll have to do it every day to keep the area hairless because the hair keeps growing back. It seems like you’d have better things to do with your time. You do have better things to do with your time, don’t you?
I’m not saying that nobody should shave. You can shave if you really want to. But you should understand that you’ve been conditioned by cultural expectations which are not natural. Many people shave even though they don’t want to because they feel they have to. Many people have attitudes about their own bodies or about other people which are unhealthy or discriminatory simply because of irrational ideas about hair.
Women naturally have hair on their legs and on their armpits. Really. I have no idea who came up with the idea of shaving it off. I know it’s not a universal thing, but in the US, the majority of women shave or remove the hair through even more ridiculous means. Women with hair, especially with armpit hair, are often viewed with disgust, by both men and by other women. Why? It’s completely natural to have this hair. If she never shaves, the hair is soft. If she showers regularly, the hair is clean. Just what is objectionable about it?
If women weren’t supposed to grow hair there, then the hair wouldn’t grow there. But it does. It grows on men and women.Do you shave? You have that right. But to discriminate against someone else who doesn’t, for whatever reason (and the reason is really none of your business), is unconscionable.
Both men and women may decide not to shave because they think it’s a stupid waste of time and they’ve got better things to do than spend minutes every day cutting themselves, trying to defy nature for no good reason in cultural exercise for a result they don’t think looks better than what nature gave them.
Why shave just because Culture says you should? If God didn’t want you to have hair on your legs or underarms then he wouldn’t have given it to you.
I think that the standards for women in this society are unrealistic and unfounded.
I think that girls should be allowed to shave or not shave their legs if they want to and people shouldn’t judge them on that.
Shaving legs has become such a part of American culture people often don’t stop and evaluate why we have this peculiar habit. After all, much of the rest of the world doesn’t remove leg hair. It is time to take a critical look at this practice and seriously ask, “Why do women shave their legs?”
Comments (34)
I shave. I was taught to as a kid and I grew up doing it. Now, once I have, I can’t go back because it feels “icky.” Haha!!
@Papillon_Mom - In other words you were “conditioned to do it” LOL
What are your thoughts on it?
Do you continue because it is the “culturally acceptable thing to do”? Do you think you have been “conditioned by your environment” to think it is something you have to do?
I wish I didn’t start shaving because it does grow back longer and thicker -_-
Most women I know who shave do it because they like the way it looks and feels, nothing to do with the social reasons, though I can see where some might.
@aliceandrandy - That is a proven myth.
It just takes a bit longer for it to get as soft as people who have never shaved.
I completely agree with you. I’ve been wanting to give it up for so long. every time I try I end up with a rash and ingrown hairs while it grows back and it’s SO uncomfortable. then again so is shaving…
my husband is nice but i can tell he doesn’t find it attractive for me to be hairy. I am REALLY hairy too… so it’s quite noticable. I could say “well who cares what he thinks!”. but really, I can’t stand the thought of him thinking it unattractive, even if he doesn’t tell me and honors my own feelings about it.
I never think it gross to see womans hair legs or pits. I think it refreshing.
@EarthsAzureLight - did they start shaving at an early age because they were socially conditioned to? Or did they have hair for awhile and then decided to try shaving and decided they liked shaved better?
They might not like to admit it but they probably feel they like it better shaved because they have been conditioned by society that shaved is better.
@Kristenmomof3 - I WISH that was a myth. That actually happened to me; also I noted that waxing caused the hair to spread and grow longer and become more apparent. It’s not a myth to me when that so clearly happened on my body.
THIS IS SOO RECOMMENDED.
I have wondered that myself – men don’t have to shave darn near everything – why do we? What a double standard! God created us with hair on our bodies, it’s natural and beautiful. It’s a bit unfair that hairier women (like myself) get unfavorably compared to women with naturally less or no hair and we have to damage our skin and endure pain in order to just keep up. It’s total cultural conditioning and a result of a plastic, airbrushed media which obsessively focuses on an unrealistic ideal of “perfection”.
I don’t normally shave actually, but I absolutely do shave if I’m going to the beach or wearing shorts and shortsleeves and I have gotten bikini (not brazilian) waxes done. It’s painful and it does promote ingrown hairs and honestly, it’s not natural. I shave or wax whenever I have to wear shorts etc because its simply not socially acceptable not to, especially for hairy me.
@Kristenmomof3 - I’m telling you, I would quit in an instant. But it’s hard to describe. Once you have shaved, it drives you nuts not to. It feels gross. And the hair under my arms itches if I don’t shave daily. I only do it now because it feels so gross not to.
I also wax my eyebrows. Unfortunately, I inherited my dad’s eyebrows. If I don’t wax them regularly, I look like Bert on Sesame Street. Haha!!!!
@Kristenmomof3 - In general, the latter. They didn’t start shaving until late in adolesence or adulthood. Particularly shaving of pubic hair.
Why I shave:
- Smooth legs feel *amazing* against my sheets, hands, etc.
- My underarms sweat less and smell less when they are bare
- I find it aesthetically preferable
- I have not cut myself while shaving since I was thirteen.
- I have gotten a total of two ingrown hairs in my life
- It takes all of two seconds to swipe my underarms each time I shower (I don’t even need shave gel).
- I only need to shave my legs once or twice a week to prevent hair growth.
- My boyfriend loves the feel of smooth skin
My pubic grooming habits are more personal. But I will say that I have shaved with the specific purpose of leaving some pattern, shape, or symbol, because every time I look at myself nude in the mirror (which, trust me, is often), I see it and it makes me smile, at least until the hair grows back out.
And I have a friend who doesn’t shave. It took me a while to get used to it, because it made her look more masculine at first, but now it doesn’t bother me at all, and I certainly have never tried to pressure her into shaving.
God didn’t bring us here with clothes on but why do you wear ‘em? i dont think that reasoning justifies your argument for not shaving. i know some women that do it because their hair irritates their skin. i do it because my legs just get itchy when i dont after a while.
I see your point. I’m assuming I am conditioned as well, as I grew up and learned to shave when I was in middle school. I thought I was so grown up! I could shave my legs like Mommy!!!
But when I really think about it, I absolutely love the feeling of shaved legs and shaved underarms. The person above me, la_faerie_joyeuse, I can agree and relate to all of her reasons listed. I’ve gone months without shaving (winter) and the only satisfaction that I got out of it was when I finally did shave, my legs felt that much smoother.
I like things silky, shiny, smooth, etc. It might be an OCD of mine. I dunno.
Totally recommending this though. Very interesting comparing the reasons.
I shave for my own reasons, mainly because I like the way my legs feel without hair. I don’t shave every day (my mom’s friend does and that would drive me crazy!), I shave when I feel like I need to…around once every 7-10 days or so depending on the weather.
When I was deployed on my 2nd boat (10 years USMC) there was a girl who didn’t shave the entire 6 months and would show everyone every chance she got. Good for her but not everyone wanted to see her legs!
I also shave “down there” and have since I was 15. I started because of my then boyfriend (which was a stupid reason to start) but I really liked the way my skin felt after a few weeks of getting used to it. Now I would never grow it out. My DD is 4 right now and when she gets older I plan on talking to her about it and give her the pros and cons of starting too early. I hope that she’ll wait until she’s at least 18 (or never at all!)
@Pawleeen - No, God did not give us clothes when he created us…but that is where original sin comes in…
Sure–but you could ask this about any grooming/hygiene practice that has no health-related purpose. Why does anyone cut their hair? Why do we care what our breath smells like? Why do we wear anti-perspirant? All those socially conditioned things defy nature as well.
And my thought is, as culturally-conditioned practices go, leg-shaving is relatively tame. (Compared to foot-binding or neck-stretching or ritual scarring.
When my fiancee lets a few days go by and her legs get prickly, it really doesn’t bother me much–feels like goosebumps. But there’s nothing quite like the glass-smooth feel of freshly-shaven legs. It’s not only pleasant, it lets me know that she went out of her way and took time and energy to do something with me in mind, which is quite touching. She says similar things about the skin above and below my beard: when my neck and cheeks are smooth, she keeps running her hand along them and comments on how nice I feel.
Not to mention, modern American shaving (all about speed and safety) is nothing compared to the old-school stuff. Wet-shaving with a lather-mug and badger-hair brush and a straight razor (or double-edged Merkur) is a soothing and calming ritual, and you get a closeness that has to be felt to be believed.
Yes it’s for aesthetics, but it’s still a silly question. Do you wear makeup? How about when you go out, why not wear a potato sack? We are culturally conditioned to do many things, even the food we eat. I eat raw crab, fermented soybeans (which smells like shit), and gobble down fish eyeballs like nobodys business. Do you? Again, this it’s all cultural. If you don’t shave, good for you; but don’t ask why when 99.9999% of Americans do. The question is, why don’t you?
@Mr_Jin - actually I don’t wear makeup. Again don’t see the point in it.
Why don’t I do these things you ask….because I feel they are pointless.
@Kristenmomof3 - If that’s how you feel, then you have more courage than me. I conform to social norms, why? Because I’m a part of that society. It may seem pointless to you, but it’s the world we live in. Good luck with it though.
I shave my underarms because I don’t get as sweaty during the summer, and sometimes winter if it’s too hot inside! I hate shaving my legs. They always end up irritated with red bumps all over my legs anyway, not to mention the hair grows back immediately if I get a cold chill, so what’s the point?! I really only shave my legs if someone is going to see them, and in the winter that’s almost never. Then again, I wear pants in the summer too, so I don’t shave my legs all that often.
Good questions. you’re right, it’s a cultural thing; we’re “expected” to, now that someone started it, and now that the media has spoon-fed us for years what they feel is “feminine”.
I have some friends who do and some friends who don’t. It’s a personal choice. I don’t much in the winter because no one sees those places anyway. If I was married and my husband preferred silky smooth legs, then I would try to keep it up, because it does feel nice when they are smooth. It also feels fine when the hair has grown out – but it’s the in-between stubble that’s miserable.
“cutting oneself” isn’t really a good reason not to shave. It rarely happens, once you know what you’re doing and if you’re careful. Shaving becomes a habit, like washing your hair. You learn how to prevent it, just like you learn how to avoid getting soap in your eyes.
Interesting dare, now that winter’s here….any women who shave regularly, are you ready to go on a shave strike and report back how it goes?
Kristen-If you want to leave your body as God intended, then why did you dye your hair?
@la_faerie_joyeuse - i concur. have you ever just jumped into bed w/ shaved legs and moved them around because it just felt so nice? you def. feel cooler in the summer after a shave. and i think your underarm hair holds in more odors, so shaving def keeps it sexy longer!
@elainef -
lol
Why do men shave their faces? Even my husband, who wears a full beard, shaves his neck.
I prefer the shaved look for women. But people are free to do what they want. I want to be smooth and hairless.
All good points.
I started when I was 12 because I felt it was something I had to do to be an “attractive young lady”. Now that I’m older, I enjoy the smooth and silky feel of freshly shaved or waxed skin.
I did see a girl once in a coffee shop, who at first I thought she had on a pair of really fuzzy socks, then I realized they were just really hairy, looked as if they had never been shaved, legs. At first I had a “oh my god!” moment then I realized that, hey, if that’s what she wants to do and she’s comfortable with it, more power to her to not put a razorblade against her skin and dealing with the tedious and annoying work. In the end, I applauded her individuality and choice to go against what women feel they have to do to be sexy. Personally, I still can’t imagine not shaving, though.
@elainef - lol….If you believe a woman shouldn’t cut her hair then why do you shave your legs and pluck the hair on your chin and stuff like that?
I think you and I could probably go round and round on stuff like this
Like I said though, I do not see the point in shaving your legs.
The main reason I started dying my hair is that it causes my psoriasis on my head to go away for a little. At the point that my psoriasis would go away and stay away is the point that I would no longer do anything to my hair.
I just had to tease you!! Don’t take offense.
I’ll just do the opposite of you..LOL!
@elainef - no offense taken
I had to tease back…..
I seem to find that in the Mennonite community most of the older women do not shave their legs but it is becoming quite popular starting probably with your generation.
Grandma’s generation most did not shave. (Grandma is repulsed by the idea of women shaving their legs and thinks it is crazy)
Now my generation, having went to a Mennonite school, there were 3 of us girls who didn’t. (The two others were the most conservative of the class)
I find it to be an interesting trend to study LOL
I don’t care if you want to shave your legs or not.
Barry married me knowing I was a hairy/non-shaving woman, and if he doesn’t care then it doesn’t matter LOL
Hope you are having a wonderful morning. Now to go check to see if the children’s teacher emailed me back yet. That is why I am gravitating around the computer this morning. I am waiting for that.
Tell you what, I shave and I know exactly why I do. I completely agree that it’s a cultural thing, living in the USA. It’s become the norm because the media decided it should be and the economy decided there was a market for the products. Does your husband shave his facial hair? Do you ever get a hair cut? Do you ever dye your hair? I shave because in my culture it’s normal and to me, not that big a deal. I shave because I like the way it feels and that, in turn, makes me feel more attractive for my husband. (Note: He doesn’t ask me to shave, by the way. If I don’t, he doesn’t really care. It’s for my own sake.) In much the same way, I wear make up sometimes, especially if I’m having a cruddy day because it makes me feel special, pretty, and feminine.
If shaving seems like a waste, a chore, or hypocritical and your husband doesn’t mind, then by all means steer clear of the razor! But I don’t think it means all women who shave are superficial or trying to be sex objects for every man they see. I see nothing wrong with taking part in basically harmless routines in the culture you are a part of, AS LONG AS you understand why you are doing it rather than mindlessly conforming.
I choose to shave. I don’t all the time, but I like to often enough. I feel pampered, like I do when I spend half-and-hour painting my toenails or when I style my hair really pretty. Just because God gave us hair on our legs doesn’t make it a sin to shave it off. Silly perhaps, but nothing more, in my opinion. And I’m okay with silly.
~Victoria
Shaving actually began because it made women’s legs and armpits more like a little girl’s, and it caught on from there. Personally, I shave because the hair itself bothers me. I know this may be “TMI” but I began shaving “down there” because it was often uncomfortable. Now, it’s just been a habit for several years.
I believe shaving is a personal presence. It doesn’t bother me whether a woman does or not, but to me, men shaving their armpits is just weird.
*sigh* I understand the double-standard, but I suppose it’s all just personal preference…
Interesting facts. I do shave, but I don’t enjoy it. In fact, I have eczma, so sometimes it’s irritating to shave. If i’m going out,and wear shorts, or swimsuit, I will shave. A lot of times though I will go without. Especially in the colder winter months, when my eczma is worse.
I rather enjoy shaving my legs. It feels really nice afterward. I don’t have a boyfriend, so it’s not like I’m doing it for anyone. It’s especially fun to do in a hot bath. Menial tasks like that give me time to think. Oooh, and the best is getting a good shave and then going to sleep in a silk skirt. Feels a-MA-zing.