February 1, 2010
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tichel
The Tichel (טיכעל) also Mitpachat is a headscarf worn by married Jewish women in compliance with the code of modesty known as Tzeniut. Tichels can range from a very simple plain color cotton square with a simple tie in the back to very elaborate fabrics with very complex ties using multiple fabrics.Once a woman is married, she enters into a completely unique relationship with her husband. This transformation is alluded to by the Hebrew name for the wedding ceremony, “Kiddushin,” which means sanctification or holiness.
Through this act, the bride and groom are totally and utterly dedicated to each other in a holy coupling. This dedication manifests itself in both an internal and an external form, in many ways, and for both partners.
One of these ways is by a woman covering her hair, which is viewed by Judaism as a sensual and private part of a married woman’s appearance. By covering her hair (even with a wig, which may be mistaken for real hair) a woman is expressing her exclusive devotion, love for, and unique connection to her husband.
Even if others do not realize that she is covering her hair, she has the constant awareness and consciousness that she is one half of a unique and profound relationship, sanctified by G-d Himself.
Comments (9)
I have some women in my family who have quite ornate tichels. I respect them as much as I respect my cousin, Fatima who wears the hijab.
I love tichels
they come in some really nice patterns and colors! Right now, its my covering of choice since they cover more of my hair when its down or in a ponytail (I have a very sensitive head and I am prone to headaches when I wear my hair up). Some of them are also lightweight, which is perfect for the warmer months.
good post!
@Aaliyaan - Thank you for the wonderful comment
@tkmuskrat - yes, they are beautiful and can be worn so many different ways
Very intersting post!!
My wife prefers one of those turban style hats you can ONLY find in Brooklyn. At least it gives us an excuse to get a decent kosher pizza when we drive in.I can’t stand those snoods though. It looks like the lady fell out of the forties,the way my mom looked LOL
I find it interesting that covering one’s hair with a wig is considered acceptable. I never would have thought of that. But it makes sense, because for someone who wants to practice this tradition in the working world, they can do so without feeling too pretentious. It becomes more private that way.
@CrystallineFigurines - yup
Back when I was a believer and covered, the tichel was my covering of choice. Unfortunately, it didn’t look very good on me since I was overweight. But that wasn’t the point then. Now if I ever lose enough weight I may still wear mine as an accessory even though I am agnostic now. I just sort of got used to the sense of security they gave me.